Wednesday, August 18, 2010

Please help. i know its long, but please your help would be wonderful.!?

i love my boyfriend. on 11-13 we would be going out for 11 months. but i haven't seen him since Oct. 15, haven't spoken to him on the phone since Nov. 1. and haven't heard from him since Nov. 4.!! its now the 10th.!! I have a feeling its not his fault though.. his mom is kind of sneaky and untrustworthy. She wanted to move to Germany, I'm still in the US. So she decided to move there. She took my man with her. And since we are both still in high school, we had no choice. But before she left she was telling him how she will make it so we can talk to each other and still be together, he told me not to trust her because she always runs her mouth and doesn't follow through. But I thought she could change, and told him maybe going wouldn't be such a bad thing..





Now we are both suffering because she is not making it possible for him to get in contact with me. At first he was, he got there on Nov. 1. He messaged me on myspace from a hotel computer. Now I believe the reason he hasn't been on was because they found a house. Well I saw that she was getting on myspace [[his mother]]. And i sent her a message asking if he was okay and a message that asked for her to please let him get in contact with me. She read the one asking to please let him get in contact with me and didn't even bother to read the second one. Then I sent her another one like 2 days later it said ';


Im sorry to keep bugging you, I know you most likely dont want to hear from me, and dont want anything to do with me. but can you just let Dj know im going to PA, and that i miss him. You were saying before how you were happy that he was happy, why cant he talk to me.? you probably aren't going to read this or if you do not even reply. but can you please at least let him know i love him and that i miss him.








I hope you all are safe and having fun.';





that was the last message im going to send to her. She read that a few hours after I sent it and didn't even bother to respond.! She was a laptop which means she could be keeping my man from using it...





Believe me he loves me, everyone around can tell he does..





What are some tips that can get me through this hard time until he comes back, and until he messages me.?





Please help.!





And if it was true love wouldn't he find a way asap to contact me.??Please help. i know its long, but please your help would be wonderful.!?
This is a tough one. I can only imagine how miserable you are sitting by the computer and your phone waiting to hear from him. Unfortunately, looks like his mom is in control and since he lives under her roof, he has to abide by her rules. Does your man have a cell phone? If not, that may be a good Christmas gift you can get him. You mentioned he has Myspace but hasn't been on in a while... I suggest you leave him a message letting him know how much you love him and miss him, when he reads it he will contact you.


Also, keep in mind he is probably very busy moving into the new house and getting things situated right now. I'm sure he thinks about you all the time. I'm sure the long-distance thing is killing him too. Give this time... everything works out in the end. I know it's hard, but have patience and you'll get through this. If you need something to occupy your time, start a hobby or put together a collage of pictures of you two. Hope this helps...

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